We are fortunate to live in an era when life expectancy has never been higher. It’s great news, meaning the older generations get to spend long and happy years with grandchildren and great-grandchildren, creating memories and traditions that transcend the generations. Yet it also means that there comes that moment of role reversal when we find ourselves looking out for and worrying about our parents, just like they cared for and worried about us in our formative years.
Challenges of later years
Inevitably, nobody is going to be as fit and agile in their 80s as they were in their 60s. From a pragmatic viewpoint, getting older can be an expensive business. We have one of the best healthcare systems in the world, but even that only goes so far when someone is finding it hard to carry out basic day-to-day activities such as showering or getting into bed in safety.
The vast majority of older people would prefer to remain independent in their own homes instead of going through the upheaval, expense and inconvenience of relocating to assisted living accommodation or moving in with family members. The best way to achieve that is with a little forethought and planning, helping loved ones to make small adjustments around the house at the time when such modifications are a help, as opposed to a necessity. There will always be issues – some seniors have to deal with incontinence and so many other challenges along the way, however with the right planning and support, this can be eased.
Here are a few ideas you might want to consider that will help your older family members to remain independent and might just save everyone a lot of heartache and expense further down the line.
Getting around
Fear of falling can be a debilitating problem for the elderly. It can lead to seclusion, loneliness and the exacerbation of any mobility issues due to lack of exercise. Mobility aids like walking sticks and rollators can make a big difference here, providing support that is as much psychological as physical.
But remember there is more to mobility than walking to the park or shops. Getting around the house can be just as much of a trial, especially when carrying a plate of food or a steaming mug of tea. Indoor walking aids with trays are inexpensive, and they help to prevent both falls and spillages.
Kitchen safety
Speaking of mugs of tea, the kitchen is often the centre of the home, but it can also be a dangerous place. There are various kitchen aids that you can invest in here that only cost a few pounds but can make a world of difference. These include devices for opening cans and bottles that are specifically designed to be used by arthritic hands, and non-slip rubber pads that keep things safer when handling hot food and drink.
Retaining dignity
The bathroom is, perhaps, the most awkward area to cover. We all pale at the thought of getting older and having to ask for help when it comes to personal hygiene. Fitting grab handles around the bathroom makes a big difference when it comes to preventing slips.
Also, let’s not shy away from the fact that more than half of all seniors have to deal with incontinence. Facing it head on sooner rather than later makes it easier for individuals to manage the issue themselves, and there are plenty of incontinence products to help them do so discreetly and effectively. Pay a visit to your local mobility shop near Tunbridge Wells to find out what else is available.

