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Organising your life in the 21st century

Modernity seems to be accompanied by an increasingly rapid pace of life. Especially living in a big city, things seem to be getting faster and faster, with a wider range of responsibilities, possibilities and experiences coming at you every year.

To make things feel even somewhat manageable, it’s important to take organisation seriously. By taking a strategic approach, starting off by establishing some clear goals, you can make it feel like you’ve got control of your life, enabling you to take it in whichever direction you choose. 

Get clear on your goals

Before you even start organising your life, you need to sit down and seriously think about your goals. Successful organisation depends upon prioritisation – you can’t put literally everything on your to-do list and expect everything to get everything done.

There’s no right or wrong answer to this. You might want to focus more on your career, or it might be time to take a step back from work and focus on your social life. Whatever you end up prioritising, you need to be aware of what those goals look like so that you can create your plans accordingly.

Embrace organisation tools

It’s easy to have moments of clarity every now and then, and think you’ve figured everything out. The problem is that it’s pretty much impossible to just remember all of those ideas, especially if you’re living a busy life. 

You can find some great products that’ll help you organise your life, using visual aids to plan out your time and get a better picture of how everything will fit together. Whether you prefer old-school paper planners, or AI-powered planning apps and websites, there’s definitely a tool out there that’ll be perfect for you.

Don’t fit in too much

When organising your life, it’s easy to end up cramming too much in. You might be having a great, energetic day, and then end up planning your coming week as if those energy levels will remain the same. 

The reality will be that you’ll have good days, ok days, and days where you just need to curl up with a cup of tea. Don’t try to fit too much in – leave enough time to do everything properly, and a little time to do spontaneous things as and when they pop up.

Focus on yourself

It’s easy to end up organising your life around other people, or around tasks that end up taking your energy. As a result, it’s crucial that you focus on yourself as well, whether that’s blocking off some evenings to just read a book, or thinking about your diet a little more regularly. These little tasks need to take a central place in your life in the long run, if you want to retain the energy and health necessary to do the things you love.

Organising your life can feel like a monumental task at times, but it doesn’t have to be. By reframing it as something with the potential to radically transform what you’re capable of, you can slowly start to shift how you view the process and give it the time and energy it deserves.